“I hate my mother!” my client got off his chest. This was the first time I met her and she immediately began to describe images of a miserable evil. “She beat me every day of my life! She hates Me, she hates everyone. Why was I born from this miserable person?”
As a clinical hypnotist, I have seen this before. People don’t always understand or make sense of strained relationships. When someone is making you miserable, the cause may be related to a past life. People often come in groups of souls; it is a way of balancing karma. Karma is not a punishment, but rather a balance of energy. It can be positive or negative depending on the experience. Past life regression therapy often reveals the significant event in which the energy needs to be balanced. You may have met someone for the first time and immediately have a reaction that doesn’t make any sense. The answer could be rooted in a past life together when that person was friend or foe.
My client’s mother passed away years before, but her emotions still bark today. We had a lot of work to do. She was anxious and quickly began her journey through her soul life. Her deep level of hypnosis was evidenced by her eyelids fluttering and contracting.
“Let’s start with a past life that is related to this life,” I suggested. People who are in a deep trance can still speak, although their sentences are short and to the point.
“I see an ascending staircase. White, marble, majestic. It could be a castle. I still don’t know how I fit in here. Oh, I’m living it. I’m going up the stairs now,” he continued. . “Kind of like a fairy tale. I’m wearing a light, flowy garment; my hair is long and very pretty. I have a tiara, wow, it’s gold, the majesty is there. A long flowing white dress and then a robe. I’m I’m a princess. I can see my face. I’m a teenager. Is it 1896 in Bavaria? Something like that. I’m very majestic. I feel safe. I feel like everything is great. Very bright inside. Don’t worry. I’m walking up the stairs. Something as well as Rapunzel. Beyond the stairwell, I can see that the outside is a beautiful green, like the green of Ireland. The doors at the top of the steps are opened for me. Princess Madame. really pretty! People like me! I don’t want to call them servants, they know I treat them very well.” My client was amazed at how good it felt to feel beautiful, loved, and accepted, something she had never felt in her life.
“They do their job willingly,” he continued. “The servants. They like me. I’m very kind, gentle and soft-spoken. It’s so peaceful inside the castle. I’m the light in the castle. The colors are deeper than my heart is comfortable with. I’m getting tired and I go to my boudoir. There are two ladies-in-waiting. Wow, a huge canopy bed! Most of the bed is white and it looks so luxurious and cozy. I walk into the room and she takes off my cape. Oh, I just heard that someone is going to kill me!
I suspected it would be his mother in this lifetime since that might explain their relationship, but I didn’t want to plant any suggestion in his mind. I was silent.
“I see my dresser and my dresser. They’re just waiting for me to tell them what to do. I’m starting to get scared. My waitress asks if I want tea. I’m definitely scared now. I don’t know at the time, I really just want to get into the bed. My clothes feel nice and weigh nothing. I don’t want to take them off. I want her to go away. The other bridesmaid ran out the door, but she wasn’t supposed to use that door. I use that door. she must use the other door. Oh, she’s hanging out with the guard. I’m in bed and this lady, my head maid, now she looks mean. Her eyes are hot. Now she’s scary. Why is she looking at me? like that? She’s evil. A fraud. She was always so nice to me.”
I could see my client getting anxious, but I knew she would get the answers she was looking for. He let her continue.
“That’s weird. I’m reading her mind. She wanted to poison me with the tea. She doesn’t like everyone loving me because I’m young and pretty and smart. She hates me! But why? Uh, she has children. She has a daughter who thinks I should be in my place, I look at her and I know I’m scared. I don’t move. I ask her why she’s mad. She says I don’t deserve this. But I still don’t understand why. She says her daughter should be the princess. Oh , had an affair with my father, the king. She feels used by him. Oh, she has an illegitimate child. I try to tell her that my father adores me. She’s furious! I feel her energy. Pure rage! Her eyes are She wants to suffocate me. I just think my father won’t let this happen to me. The door. This witch is going to kill me! She’s my mother! It was an ‘aha’ moment for her. I can not move. I don’t know, I can’t move. I do not move. She wants to kill me. She has nothing and her daughter has nothing. I ask how she will benefit her daughter if she kills me? She said that the king will let her daughter be a princess. Mentally I say: do you really think she will love you or your daughter if you kill me? She doesn’t care- oh, they’ll all miss me, they’ll be so mad, so weird. I still look pretty even though I have red marks on my neck. She’s puffed up like a puffer fish and she’s happy.”
I watched my client’s face as he absorbed this information. It’s a lot to experience and I felt like I needed some time to catch my breath.
“I think he realizes it’s in vain,” he continued after some time had passed. My client was still in a deep hypnotic state. “He’s never going to look at her in a positive way. He Now he hates her. He’s going to get her killed. She’s screaming, ‘But I love you!’ His head is severed. His daughter is there and sees this and feels nothing. She is empty. My dad is very sad. He locks himself away. He knows that if he had not been with this woman, he would still be alive. He stays in the tower. Alone. Sad. He grows a long beard. He dies. Alone. So sad.
The lessons learned from past life regressions come from what is communicated after one leaves or dies in that life. The meaning of the relationship is fully understood. I suggested to my client that he stay in his other life to get this insight.
“She was jealous of me and couldn’t accept her position in my life then, and the same with this life. She was jealous of me and couldn’t accept my kindness. She wants me to be her mother next time. She was a waitress back then , but my mother in this life. She lacks that part of kindness, sweetness, humanity. I will teach it to her in our next life together.”
When my client opened his eyes, his first words were, “Ugh! I have to make another life with her! Are you kidding me? She killed me!” Unfortunately, if the karma wasn’t balanced in this life, and in this case I’m sure he wasn’t, then there will be another chance to balance it in another life together.
Although he did not expect his next meeting with his mother, my client was able to reconcile his feelings towards his mother in this lifetime. There was a sense of relief; a feeling of understanding of the mystery that prevented him from experiencing happiness.
Going through past lives offers answers to so many questions we have. It is a way of closing the unexplained and troubled relationships that we experience in our lives today. Past life regression therapy can release problems from the past and help you find joy and happiness in it.