You know how much you like to log into the recently launched Facebook, Twitter or Google+ to share information or update your status. Whichever way you like to use your social platforms, it is important to learn the social graces of social media, which have become an integral part of our lives. Many people believe that they can do whatever they want with their social media accounts. It is not uncommon to hear someone say, “This is my account and I can use it as I see fit.”
This may be true to some degree, but it is critical to understand that you are dealing with a social network, which means that you are not using it alone. You have to be considerate of others, even more so because online communication lacks tone and body language, which would normally help regulate face-to-face interaction. Social media guidelines are not set in stone but are generally agreed upon for better social media interaction. They cannot be exhausted here either, as there are many social platforms that are used differently. Here are some common ones that may apply to frequently used social media.
Think before posting
When in doubt about whether or not to share something online, it’s best not to share it. The internet doesn’t really have a delete button. In fact, the general rule of thumb is: if you wouldn’t say it in normal conversation, don’t say it on social media. Be careful what you say or share. You never know who sees it and how it may affect you. Also, if you are commenting on or replying to something someone has posted, make sure your comments are meaningful and respectful, that there is no spam (irrelevant or inappropriate messages sent over the internet to a large number of recipients) or comments that are off topic. . offensive gold.
Also, avoid replying to or initiating inflammatory messages. If you really feel the need to answer one, don’t do it right away. Give yourself time to think and give an adequate and objective answer. In fact, it is best to send a private message, especially if your answer is negative.
Avoid giving TMI (too much information)
Someone once said lightly that there was a fine line between “I should tweet that” and “I should talk to my therapist about it.” How many times have you or someone you know posted information deemed too personal on Facebook or Twitter? Refrain from sharing such on social media. Private conversations should also be kept outside. Use private inboxes, email, or chat if you have to share information that is out of sight. Keep venting frustrations to a minimum. Nobody likes a complainer
At the same time, don’t put too much information on your profile. Avoid giving details about where you live or about your children if you have any, among your personal information, for your own safety. The Internet is not private.
Photos
No one is really interested in seeing a photo of you drunk and passed out at a party. Avoid posting photos of yourself in compromising positions, suggestive photos of anything that others may find offensive. It paints you in a negative light. Also, do not post photos or tag people in photos without their permission, especially if they are not close friends. Regarding photos, it is always good to have a photo of you on your profile, as people like to see who they interact with online. Most people do not like to talk with cartoons or company logos.
Avoid speaking by text
Does it bother you when someone writes “Cn wi tlk l8r n 2de?” Limiting space on social media platforms is not common enough to guarantee that one writes one that way. Communicate clearly and in an understandable way.
It’s not just about you.
People get tired of people talking about themselves constantly. Social media is for social media. Interact with people. Start conversations, share information, and comment on information that others share. People are willing to listen and interact with those who do the same.