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Have you ever heard of the term “nice guys finish last”?

I know I know . . I think I have an idea what’s going through your mind right now, you’re probably thinking “No, that’s not entirely true, I disagree with that. Women LOVE good guys. Women love good guys. men who open doors for them. ” , takes out seats for them and treats them like a queen. Idiots may win her heart in the beginning, but the good guys always get the girl in the end … “

Good for the record. . . YOU’RE WRONG.

I don’t know what rock you’ve been living under for the past five years, but this is the 21st century, my friend! However, I agree with you on one point, women LOVE good guys. They want them as friends, or as best friends, or as older brothers, or as cousins, etc. . But unfortunately, women VERY RARE times would like a good boy to be their boyfriend.

Now before you get backlash, let’s talk about the term “PRETTY.” What would you qualify as a good guy?

Here are some examples:

1 A good guy is a guy who seems to be so weak that it seems like even Hanna Montana can beat him up.

2. A good boy is a needy, clingy, and disgustingly insecure guy. He’s so preoccupied with gaining a woman’s attention that he would do ABSOLUTELY anything for her.

3. A good boy is a boy who is too available ALL the time.

4. A good boy is a boy who apologizes all the time even though he didn’t even do anything wrong.

5. A good boy is a boy who sticks to every word you say and then agrees with every point you make.

6. A good boy is a boy who is simply TOO MUCH. He’s the type of person who would bring flowers, chocolates, and a big teddy bear on a lunch date.

Now, do you know how women respond to nice guys who are just too much? This is what they tell their friends about them:

“He’s so nice … But … I’m BORED.”

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“It’s so nice … But … I don’t think I deserve it.”

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“He’s so kind … But … There’s just no sparks between us.”

Difficult to accept right? I know, I know it hurts. . . Why don’t you come here and cry on my shoulders . .

I assume you probably got your “super nice guys get the girl last” mentality from your Vietnam War veteran dad and grandfather. I hate to burst your bubble here buddy, sadly that’s not how it works in this day and age.

Let’s take a look at four of the most important notions to keep in mind when it comes to attracting women:

1. The heart is IRRATIONAL.

We cannot CHOOSE who we FALL IN LOVE with. I know it sucks, but this is how life works so you just have to DEAL with it. Attraction can happen in an instant without warning, you can’t really turn your heart in which direction to go and you can’t CONVINCE their heart to choose you, so don’t even bother trying.

2. Beautiful women have LOTS of options.

Beautiful women have hundreds of options, that’s common sense, right? They flirt with her in clubs, libraries, shopping malls, etc. She also has a number of close friends who are just “pretending” to be close friends, but in reality, they can’t wait to “move on” with her. They pretend to be BEST FRIENDS, but what they really want is to be FRIENDS. That is why for any beautiful woman, every look, every good deed, every sweet word is in one way or another considered of INTEREST. Maybe not all the time, but most of the time that comes to mind because almost every guy she’s been in contact with has shown interest at some point.

3.The heart is ILLOGICAL. It doesn’t follow any rules.

When you think of the concept of attraction, it makes absolute sense for women to be attracted to kind, polite, well-mannered, and honest gentlemen, right? But then why do so many women fall for idiots and bad boys? where is the logic in that ??

There is no LOGICAL period.

4. Women long for SECURITY and STATUS.

I know this may seem unfair, unfortunately women are almost NOT attracted to men of “lower status” than themselves or who feel they cannot give them any security. That is why there are particular stereotypes, such as that women do not like men without jobs and without a future, and women do not like men who look and sound like Steve Urkell. They want a MAN, not a LADY-BOY.

Now if I were to describe the biggest mistake men make with women, the one that causes the most distress, then I’d have to say it would be. . .

BE A NICE BOY AND EXPECT THAT SHE FALLS IN LOVE WITH YOUR “KINDNESS”.

Have you ever chased a woman with flowers, chocolates, and expensive gifts, only to have her say “you don’t know what you want right now” and need “time to think.” . . what eventually led her to see you as “just a friend”?

Have you ever met a woman and given her a cute compliment, only to have her look away and show signs of boredom?

That’s what happens when you’re too nice. Bottom line? NICE GUYS don’t arouse ATTRACTION.

Too much of a good boy is SOFT. They are too needy and sticky which is nauseating.

Now the first reaction most men tend to get when they hear this is shock and amazement because being kind is what their moms taught them since they were little kids. So when they hear this disturbing news, they say things like “But I don’t want to be a jerk” or “I like being a NICE guy” or “I’m just trying to be MYSELF, that’s all.”

Don’t worry, I feel you Dawg.

Well here’s the thing, you don’t need to be a “jerk” or “mean” to women, you just need to learn how the concept of attraction works and STOP being too nice.

Do you know what really attracts women?

KNIGHTS with a touch of BAD BOY arrogance.

Yes, that’s right, you heard me, if there is one thing that activates the attraction switches of an attractive woman, it is the boy’s ability to be a gentleman but still retain a touch of arrogance and arrogance. Someone who’s not really upbeat, but who knows how to get into a woman’s heart.

I still highly recommend opening the doors, borrowing a jacket when the woman feels cold, walking on the outside of the sidewalk, and pulling out chairs. You know, the typical knight in shining armor. Men hardly do that anymore nowadays so it will make you stand out. Being a gentleman is a great quality to possess, however, you should let him know that sometimes you can also be a “BAD BOY”. For example:

You can bring him a chair and then say something like “This whole gentlemen thing is a very rare occasion, okay? So you better make the most of it while I’m still in a” good boy “zone.

Or you can pretend to dust her seat before she sits down and then say something like “there you go, Your Highness” and then show her a mocking smile afterward.

Or you can also spit out implicit compliments like “now don’t act so tall and powerful with me just because you’re cute, okay?”

Get it ??

Most men don’t understand how a woman’s mind works, which is why they are shocked to the core whenever idiots steal their women right under their noses all the time.

Let me share with you some basic facts about men and women:

Most women, by nature, play the “shy” angle. They play tough and want men to chase them. Men, on the other hand, are strong, dominant, and aggressive by nature. Most men are generally considered rough and tough, they are supposed to be SOLDIERS by nature.

But then here is the punchline:

Most men don’t ACT like men when in the company of a woman they are interested in. Instead, they act too nice and too pathetic, like a LADY-BOY.

Guess what?

It is not “hot”, it is not endearing and it is not desirable AT ALL. It really FRUSSES women!

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