The literature is replete with accounts of G-spot pleasure techniques culminating in a flood of orgasmic ecstasy. Unfortunately, many miss the magical mark leaving them high and dry with sexual frustration. Even the lucky ones who have discovered the secrets come to find them elusive at times. As with clitoral stimulation, the G-spot is not a button that can be pushed for instant pleasure. But, with a few G-spot guidelines, wet and wild sensations will be within your reach.
First, some playful facts to consider:
- The clitoris includes a network of pleasure receptors that branch off from an internal axis and wrap around the sides of the vagina.
- The urethra, which runs along the top of the vagina, is surrounded by spongy tissue packed with blood vessels and fluid-producing glands.
Both the clitoris and the urethral sponge will swell with blood when stimulated. Think of this as the body’s way of expanding the pleasure centers to capture any and all erotic sensations. Also, both are located in the upper inner third of the vagina closest to the opening. What you have to keep in mind is that there is not a single point to stimulate, but an erogenous zone.
There are no hard and fast rules for properly stimulating this internal erogenous zone. Every woman is unique and her response to any sensual activity varies significantly depending on many factors. But, it can be safely assumed that getting really turned on first is important. Fantasy and foreplay are always a good way to start, and if you’re with a partner, oral sex and intercourse will definitely set you up for more pleasure.
Some women can achieve this type of orgasm solo, but you may need to use an accessory. There are sex toys specially designed for G-spot stimulation. Vibrators can help get the blood flowing, but they are not strictly essential. Stimulates the urethral sponge and the internal portion of the clitoris. Use pulsating, stroking pressure on this area. Apply firmer pressure towards your pelvic bone as you near climax. As your orgasm begins, maintain a pulsating pressure rhythm to create a longer, more intense sensation.
Some women inadvertently suppress all the pleasure and intensity of a G-spot orgasm due to a side effect of stimulating the urethral sponge. An irritation or the feeling that you are going to urinate can cause you to stop your arousal when, in fact, you may be on the verge of a female ejaculation. Instead of pushing to suppress it, try to relax. For many women, some fluid may be released, it is not urine. Instead of feeling embarrassed, take advantage of your ability to gush with pleasure.
With a loving partner, the fingers come into play. A pulsating pressure technique similar to stroking should be used. More than one finger is desirable as it is an erogenous zone. Place your hand palm up with your fingers curled in. Instead of tensing your muscles, you should relax as you move your fingers up and down. Use your fingertips to gradually apply more and more pressure against your pelvic bone while increasing the pulsing sensation.
And remember, women can easily have multiple orgasms, so even if you’re successful, try again and again. Here are some other ideas to enhance your G-spot pleasure:
- Get a moisture-proof pad (2 square feet) available at drugstores
- Female ejaculation tends to wash out natural lubricants – use plenty of lube
- G-spot orgasms can be triggered very quickly (as little as 10 seconds)
- Some sexual intercourse positions stimulate this internal erogenous zone
- Well-groomed and polished nails are essential
- Curling your fingers inside your vagina can painfully scratch or tear
- Wrist and finger exercises will be helpful.
And for her ultimate delight, give her oral pleasure while also stimulating her G-spot. This combined stimulation tends to create very intense orgasms.