Sometimes you are attracted to a woman, but you are not sure if she is attracted to you.
It’s not very often that a girl will go straight out and say to a guy, “Hey, I’m really into you. We’re going on a date!” If so, consider yourself lucky, but even in today’s liberated world, women often leave all the hard work to the guys to arrange dates. With online dating, there are different ways to determine if that girl is into you, but let’s say you’re dating her in person and looking for clues.
Here are six of the best tracks.
1. Body language
A great way to tell if a girl likes you and if she is romantically interested is her body language. Often this includes flipping the hair in distraction. If the girl you are dating can’t stop playing with her hair while talking to you, this is a sign that she is nervous with you and quite possibly interested in some physical action.
Watch your posture when you are sitting. Does he lean in to hear what you have to say, even when acoustics aren’t an issue? This indicates a very high level of attraction on their part to you. Also, be careful about the positions of your legs if they are sitting opposite each other. Spread legs are an inviting pose, almost inviting you to sex. Cross-legged with one foot pointed directly at you is also a great indicator of sexual interest. The demure pose with the legs together and the hands on the knees is instead a sign of lack of interest.
If she’s constantly touching you, even a slight and seemingly insignificant brush against your arm, this could mean she’s hot for you!
2. She asks if you are on Facebook.
If she asks about your Facebook status at first, then it’s a big sign of her interest. This will give her the opportunity to follow up with you in a more relaxed and less stressful environment. If your new date requests your private email as well, prepare for extended contact with this girl. He may even be thinking of sending you some naughty photos, depending on how you do with his other subconscious displays of attraction to you.
3. He offers to pay for an appointment.
When a girl wants to pay for the date, this is a great indicator. She is willing to take the financial burden and make a big impression on you. If this is a first date and she pulls out her purse, then she really likes you.
4. Laugh at inappropriate times.
If you’re telling her a serious or sad story about your date and she laughs at the wrong time, she’s probably so absorbed in looking into your eyes that she can’t focus on what you have to say. She loves you so much!
5. Reduce personal space to zero
Most of us like to keep a minimum physical distance between ourselves and others (personal space). When she reduces this gap to zero, and is virtually on top of you, then clearly you are in for a winner with this girl. On the other hand, if you try to do the same and she keeps backing off, she definitely doesn’t like you.
6. Allows you to take her home in her car.
When a girl entrusts her car to you, there is a good chance that she will trust you with her body! Be nice to both of them on your date and you will soon know if she is attracted to you or not.